Self-love and personal coaching

Hi, I'm Rudy.

Rudy Merhi, smiling toward the camera.

I want to help you feel the magic of becoming someone you love, respect, appreciate and understand.

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For me, self-love begins with listening to what we feel and want, and meeting what we find with less judgment. As we understand ourselves, we can begin to understand the people we love more deeply, too.

What do you want for yourself?

Some of us know what everyone around us wants. But when someone asks us what we prefer, we feel confused. We've become so used to considering everyone else that we haven't been asking ourselves.

We might keep postponing a course, a friendship or something we enjoy until the timing works for everybody. I know how familiar that can become, and how frightening it can feel to make a different choice.

We can begin by listening to the answer, even when it is uncertain. What matters to you deserves a place in the conversation alongside the people and responsibilities you care about.

Understanding myself changed how I understood others.

When I began loving myself with less judgment, I found more room to understand the people around me. Something could still upset me, but I could look at why it affected me and learn from it.

I started seeing people as teachers. We could be different personalities, understand those differences and find ways to compromise. There was more room to love the person who was there.

A little about me

I'd love to hear what brings you here.